Showing posts with label Russia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Russia. Show all posts

Monday, 12 October 2015

Quora question - life in russia

So, I am a part of the quora community , albeit a very inactive one. I happened to answer this question and  with 108.5k Views and 2761 Upvoters, I did not expect the answer to become so popular.. I was pleasantly surprised. So here it is, the question and the answer i gave, unedited.

p.s so much happened, but this is just a copy paste from quora 


Q. What is it like for an Indian to live in Russia?

A-

I was in Russia for my internship, and let's just say, you don't know what's culture shock till you're living there. Your notions of life as you know it, is about to change.

Initially, when you first land in Russia (I was living in Moscow), you're not going to be able to stop smiling. Finally, you're in Russia. The country you've only heard so much about. Then, you'll notice, people shooting you strange looks. Yes, that is because you were smiling like an idiot at strangers. You'll soon grow to realise, smile there is a privilege. Russians don't smile much in general as a rule. But once you get to know Russians personally you'll find them to be warm and quite friendly. 
Next, you have a Russian image of them being alcoholics who just LOVE their vodka. Haha, nope. They're more in love with their tea. (Green tea, not Indian milk tea, which they find very strange in taste) You're sure to be offered tea in every house you visit. A lot like india, that way. In case, you do have vodka with a bunch of Russians , DON'T EMBARRASS YOURSELF BY MIXING IT WITH COKE OR SPRITE OR WHATEVER(wish I knew that then!)  Russians often sip their vodka neat. That's because they're used to cold weather and vodka warms you up wonderfully.
Generally, the pace of life in Moscow is very fast. People walk with determination and they always look busy. And, they are always impeccably dressed. Smartly, suited and booted.
Being a vegetarian, yesss. It's very difficult, but not altogether impossible. Check out "glow subs" that's a lot like subway only much cheaper and another joint is kartoshka (it means potato) which is jacket potatoes with lots of fillings. Try varenikki as well (like, indian momos)
I can not stress this enough, please carry your own spices from India because spices in Russia are either very expensive or not very easily available. We had quite a tough time even to locate basic spices and , eating out everyday might prove to be very expensive. That's right, Moscow is incredibly expensive whereas St. Petersburg is much more tourist-y and therefore, easier on your pockets. Another thing, there's no free water in russia. Yep, you'll have to pay for water when eating out. And water there, is of many kinds. Still, sparkling, fruit flavored.
Oh, you'll have to pay for ketchup in McDonald's. No free ketchup there too.

Next thing, which is a huge cultural shock is the PDA. Russians are all over the place! As an Indian, where all forms of physical love is meant only for bedrooms (not counting all the couples making out behind gardens, of course) you'll find Russians very okay with hugging, kissing and much more in public. Try not to gawk, its very rude. Another aspect of living in Russia is the warmth people with exude towards Indians. They simply love Indians, if put simply. They love our complexion and they love Bollywood. The most famous Russian song (dont be surprised if you hear a Russian hum this song) is Jimmy Jimmy from Disco Dancer movie. Another hit favorite movie there is Seeta and Geeta. They're were numerous times, when my best friend and I were stopped on the street , while Russians exclaimed "ooh, you too Seeta Geeta!"'

English is not very widely spoken there, barely people there know or can converse in the language. In Moscow. Even the metro stations have ONLY Russian names. St. Petersburg is better, they have lots of English signs. But, like us soon enough you will start understanding Cyrillic(Russian alphabets) .

For all your souvenir shopping , check out Ismailovsky market (end of dark blue metro line). It's cheap and the prices are highly negotiable. Avoid shopping near Kremlin.

Have a great time in Russia! You've successfully made me reminisce all my Russian memories. :')
You're gonna be fine there. Have fun :)






Here is the link to my other blog posts about Russia - http://tanushreelahoti.blogspot.sg/2014/05/faqs-frequently-asked-questions.html

Sunday, 1 June 2014

"WHAAAT? No . We DONT do that in India.." Sigh, here come the stereotypes.


Stereotypes can be a funny thing. It gives you a wholly misjudged ideas about a thing, a person or a destination. Stereotypes make you want befriend a certain kind, or ostracize another. It will have you book your tickets instantly, or shake your head and vehemently deny. 


SO WHAT IS A STEREOTYPE? 

1ste·reo·type transitive verb \ˈster-ē-ə-ˌtīp, ˈstir-\   : to believe unfairly that all people or things with a particular characteristic are the same.

Inspiration for this post, are my students. The first question i asked them was, 'So, what do you know about India? What comes to your mind when i say INDIA? ' And ohhh, the answers i got! 
'Do you really keep snakes as your pets?'      ' Uhh, do you like, always eat curry?'' 

So here are some common misconceptions that a foreigner has about India ( source for this, a lot of russians that i spoke to, the students, and of course the internet!) 


1. 'India is a land of snake-charmers..' 




The biggest stereotype that I know of is that Indians are snake charmers! This is so not true. First of all, its illegal in india to even use captive snakes for entertainment. And we, the regular folks are as scared of a snake like any person on this planet. Its not like, being an Indian will get the snake not to bite us. 
Taking this notion a step forward, in the famous sitcom "Big Bang Theory" , Sheldon tries to scare Raj (who is an Indian)  by hiding a snake in his drawer, and but then Raj starts playing with the snake instead, and Sheldon says that it was stupid of him to try to scare an Indian with a snake. WTF!  I mean, we ARE scared of snakes ! Who isn't?
Here's the scene :

2. ' Don't you have elephants as pets?' 






Sigh, no we don't. The closest most Indians have come to seeing an elephant is either in a circus, or maybe a temple. And this made me laugh the most, when a girl asks me .. "doesn't Hindu marriages last for several weeks, the bride rides an elephant?" Oh boy, you've been watching a lot of KJO movies there, lady! 

         3.'Are ALL of indians vegetarians?'




-  Sorry, but no. In fact i know so many people, who'd die without meat. Literally, die. >insert names of people<   . Meat consumption in India is quite high. By meat, I mean.. Chicken, pork, seafood, mutton and yess, even beef. 

This is almost always followed by,

4. ' But don't you pray to COWS?' 




- Cows are sacred to us, yeah. But put in that way .. I don't know what to say. Cow is an embodiment of 33 Crore Demi-Gods, we consider cows holy and the importance of the cow goes back all the way into our cultural lineage. Beef isn't as popular here in India as in other countries . 

5. 'It’s basically just like Slumdog Millionaire, right?'




- This again is quite oftenly asked. Sorry to disappoint, mate. It isn't! Though some parts of that movie is authentic, rest of it is just made to look so in order to make it cinematic worthy of the whole ," rags to riches" theme. India is also the country where you have high-fashion labels like, Louis vuitton, chanel and et el. Lets not forget that, shall we?




6. Indian society is very conservative. 


 -  umm, This is a yes and no question. Yes, we are conservative! Definitely more conservative than west. At the same time, Am I not in Russia traveling alone? And didn't I do the same, last year in SriLanka? Its different for every family, but  it cannot be generalized. Times have changed. 

7. ' Curry everyday?"


- Indians dont eat rich, spicy, masala curry everyday. The staple diet of most Indians consist of dal , rice, rotis with cooked vegetables. And there are other food too, you know? Idlis-dosas, rasam rice , chole kulche with dal makhani  . . . 



To know an Indian you got to be an Indian. I absolutely disagree with most of these stereotypes. I would not go by Russel Peters all the time. He is a comedian.. But let us get down to facts now.

Some stereotypes, unfortunately or fortunately still are true.


Yes, cows roam our streets. 


-   Yes, cows are allowed to walk around towns. Often you'll see the pedestrians and other people on the roads making way for this gentle creature. Its not uncommon to have a traffic jam because of a cow here.



 “Do people in India really sing and dance all the time like in Bollywood movies?”


- YES!  Out of the blue and for no justified reason, all Indian movies suddenly break into a dance and singing scene. Indian movies are pretty long (more than 3 hours) and usually half of these 3 hours are all about singing and dancing.

"Indian head wobble?" 

- Yes, Its second nature to us! We wobble our heads a lot while talking. Here's what i mean :  http://www.storypick.com/curious-case-great-indian-headshake-yes-dont-know/



Before we make a hue and cry about this is so wrong, lets take a look at ourselves. Knowingly, or unknowingly we partake in stereotyping too. Don't believe me? Let's see... 
Most common ones, 
 She is a Punjabi – She will be loud, and a confirm yoyo honey singh fan.
She is a Goan – She has to be really cool and will be a beer lover
He is a Haryanvi – Goon, run for your life. ' Issko sirf gaali dena aata hain '
She is from Chandigarh – Her ultimate aim in life is becoming a roadie.
She is from Meghalaya/Tripura/Arunachal – Momos, Momos these guys only eat moms





Its time to change, guys! Here, i'd like to give a shootout to the  trulymadly.com initiative that talks about breaking stereotypes. 
Kudos! 



Here's a funny song, basically listing all stereotypes from different countries :





DO YOU AGREE? OR DISAGREE? LET ME KNOWWW! TILL THEN, KEEP GALAVANTING! :D 



P.S I AM GOING TO BE UPDATING A LOT OF POSTS IN A QUICK ROW, KEEP TUNED.